I’ve been a terrible husband. I’ve made my wife feel that spending any time outside of her room is somehow going to make me feel bad. This is not the case. I need for her to have a life of her own through the time we’re separated. I need to know that she isn’t hiding from the world in her room.
I need her to know that I love her. I need her to know that I trust her and that I stand behind her. I need her to know that I am sorry for making her feel like she needed to withdraw from her life there.
I’ve been a terrible husband. Through my comments I have made my wife feel uncertain. This is unconscionable. My job is to support her. To bolster her. To see her through the hard times. I haven’t done a very good job of that. For the most part, I’ve tossed that part of what we are down the drain.
This is a formal apology. I’m sorry baby. I should have thought through what I said. I should have done more to support you.
I should have done more, but I didn’t.
I’ll try to do better. Just promise me you won’t sit n yur room and wait for the world to catch up with you. You need time for yourself and I’m glad that you have it.
I love you with all my heart.
Me
Honey,
I didn’t need a formal apology. I swear! *sigh* Being away from each other is really hard. A lot harder than I ever imagined. We both want each other to have fun and relax with friends and family yet when we do, we get all bent out of shape about it.
I won’t stay locked up in my room. I promise that I’ll get back to the blog again and actually go outside to take pictures. You’d better not stay locked up the house either!
I love you with all my heart too, baby. We’ll get through this. One day at a time. And I’m one day closer now.